Guided Audio – Eye of the Storm Meditation

Guided Audio – Eye of the Storm Meditation

Eye of the Storm Guided Meditation

Life doesn’t slow. You have deadlines, emails, and messages. The stress creeps in before you notice. But in the middle of all this chaos, there is always a still point—a space of quiet within you that is beyond stress and confusion.

This quiet space is the eye of the storm—a place where we can pause, breathe, and reconnect with ourselves, no matter what is happening around us.

Take three minutes to find calm with this short meditation, where I guide you into that still center, the place of clarity and calm. You don’t need silence. You don’t need perfect conditions. You only need to pause and breathe.

I recorded a guided audio for you to practice the Eye of the Storm Meditatiom. The audio is about 3 minutes.

Eye of the Storm Meditation Practice tips

Wear headphones if possible.

If at any time during the meditation, you become physically uncomfortable, create some movement.  You can shift around in your seat or even get up and walk around.  

Don’t force your breath.  Let it flow normally,

If your mind is restless, you are not doing anything wrong.  

Relax and breathe.

Enjoy!

Compassion Meditation  – Tonglen

Compassion Meditation – Tonglen

The world needs compassion more than ever. There is turmoil, and many people are suffering. We can help by bringing compassion and attempting to understand their situation while also being open to listening and learning from others’ experiences.

In this musing, I introduce the meditation practice of Tonglen.  Tonglen is a Tibetan Buddhist meditation used to cultivate compassion. It is a simple yet powerful tool for self-growth and transformation. Tibetan monks and nuns practiced the technique for centuries, but it has also recently gained popularity in the Western world.

 

What is Tonglen?

Tonglen is a Tibetan Buddhist meditation practice. Tonglen means giving and taking, exchanging self with others.  

Tonglen asks us to face our usual avoidance of suffering. During Tonglen’s practice, we imagine breathing in the suffering of others and sending compassion or what is needed on the out-breath. The practice is intended to create love and compassion for others and ourselves. Tonglen opens us to the potential of a larger perspective, including the awareness of others and the boundaryless nature of our actual being.

The Benefits of Tonglen

There are many benefits of practicing Tonglen. It helps to cultivate compassion, reduce stress, heal trauma, generate happiness and develop self-compassion. It brings awareness to the feelings of all beings.

Meditation is a tool to anchor the thoughts and emotions that overrun your mind, allowing you to find the inner eye of the storm. Imagine diving below choppy waters into the calm depth below the surface. The surface is still choppy, but below is peace. The choppy surface is the nature of your mind.   At the surface are the disruptions of senses and emotions. Just below the depth is the calm center, the witnessing presence. Yoga calls these disruptions the Citta Vritti, The mental disturbances that keep you from understanding the peace beneath them.

 

Tonglen and the two arrows of Suffering

Tonglen, as a meditation practice, goes one step further, helping to process pain and suffering to realize we can’t escape the pain and suffering. 

Processing painful emotions into joy is not easy. 

Humans resist pain and suffering. So we try to avoid it.

Tonglen accepts that we can’t shut out misery if we wish to feel the full spectrum of human emotion, including joy. Tonglen teaches us to face our fears and unpleasant feelings and transform them into compassion and joy. You may focus on a specific fear or pain, breathing it in and out, releasing them, noticing where you brace against pain and suffering, adding to the discomfort.

The Buddha spoke about this avoidance of suffering.  The suffering is like being hit by an arrow.  Bracing against and resisting  suffering is like being shot with a second arrow believing that ‘things shouldn’t be this way.’

Resistance amplifies the pain. By accepting that suffering is part of the human experience, you don’t need to be afflicted by the second arrow,

Applications of Tonglen

You may work with Tonglen for a specific suffering person or a community. You may wish to create compassion for someone you don’t understand or disagree with. For example, you may work with someone who is difficult or has caused you harm. You may choose to work with your suffering.

The practice of Tonglen consists of taking and sending. So first, imagine taking on the suffering of another to lessen their load or send it away completely. Then imagine giving your compassion and joy back to them.

 

The Practice of Tonglen

Start by sitting with your eyes closed and thinking about someone you care about or who has done something to make you feel loved or happy. 

Imagine breathing in their pain or discomfort and drawing it into your heart. Then, imagine turning their pain into joy through your compassionate heart. Next, breathe out love and happiness. Finally, imagine sending it to them.

Once you have practiced with someone you love or care for, you may work with someone who has harmed or upset you. Breathe in their pain or the pain they have caused you, and send them back your compassion.

 

Finally, you may choose to work with your suffering or pain. Breathe it in. Give this pain the compassion of your heart, breathing out peace.

Tonglen for Compassion

 The lens through which you see the world is distorted by your biases and beliefs. If your view of the world is very narrow, this may lead to viewing things in black and white, with no middle ground or nuance. This narrow, black-and-white vision of the world is known as polarized thinking.

Polarized thinking is a logical fallacy that involves reducing complicated issues to extremes. Polarized thinking is an oversimplification of the truth, reducing everything to a category. It is creating black and white, no greys, no in-between. It is a distorted lens that blurs reality.

This thinking can be dangerous because it limits your ability to solve complex problems by oversimplifying them and categorizing them into black-and-white categories. As a result, you fail to see the possibilities in the greys and the rest of the rainbow.

We are not all the same. We all have different opinions, beliefs, and cultures. We can’t just see things in black and white.
To understand others and avoid conflict, we must understand the grey area surrounding every issue. And use compassion as a way to bridge these gaps in understanding.

Compassion does not have to mean agreement. It seeks to understand the experiences of another. To realize that where you see white, others may see black or shades of grey.

The practice of Tonglen helps open your heart to view the reality of those around you. It helps dissolve the barriers, the illusion of separation of self and others, the heart of yoga practice.

Tonglen Meditation Guided Audio

I have included an audio recording with a Tonglen meditation if you want to practice with guided audio.  The recording is about 7 minutes long.  

Tonglen Meditation Practice tips

Get comfortable either sitting or lying down and wear headphones if possible.

Place your awareness on your breath. On your next exhale, imagine exhaling out the white light of love and compassion, your wish to alleviate the pain and suffering of others. As you inhale, invite the smoky darkness of negativity and suffering to enter your heart, transforming it into the white light.

Take a few breaths breathing out the white light of love and compassion, breathing in the darkness of negativity and suffering.

Imagine someone you love that is facing fear, suffering, or darkness. Breathe in their darkness and fear, taking it from them.

As you exhale, your compassionate heart sends back soothing, gentle white light that comforts them.

You may choose to include other people or beings in your meditation. Breathe in the darkness of their suffering, and breathe out the light of love and compassion.

 

 

Wishing you peace.

Guided Audio – Sound Meditation

Guided Audio – Sound Meditation

A Guided Meditation using Sounds

Sound can be a distraction during meditation.  Noises can pull you from the state of calm that may come with meditation.  But the goal of meditation may not be to distance yourself from what is around you but to create awareness of your external and internal environment.

It is almost impossible to avoid sounds as you meditate. Sounds come and constantly.  But sounds don’t need to be a distraction.  You can use sound in your practice.  You can use any sound.  You may notice sounds around you, in your room, or you may notice sounds outside of your environment, like cars passing or birds singing.  You may notice internal sounds like the sound of your breath.  There might be subtle a sound like the hum of a computer.

The sounds you hear become an anchor, an object of the senses that helps keep your mind present to the moment.  Your mind tends to think about the past or the future, it is not usually in the present moment, the now.  

During this meditation, you will start by listening to the sound of your breath.  Then you may choose to explore listening to any other sounds that become aware of, noticing the qualities of each sound.  Every sound has certain qualities, like how loud the sound is, and the pitch of the sound.  Sounds may come and go, they may be very close to you, or far away.  To meditate on a sound is more than being aware of the sound, it is noticing these qualities.

In this meditation, I will lead you through the experience of becoming aware of the sounds around you.

The practice

Get comfortable, either sitting or lying down. If seated, ensure your feet touch the floor or a book. You may have your knees bent over a pillow if you lie down.

Take a moment to settle in, and adjust your position if you need to get comfortable.

Close your eyes, or let your gaze soften by looking just in front of you. 

Bring your awareness to the breath, but instead of focusing on the physical feeling of the breath, listen to the sound of the body breathing.

Open up your awareness to other sounds present. Let your awareness focus on one sound. Tune into this sound, and listen to the sound and the qualities of this sound.

Notice how the mind recognizes the sound. When a car goes by, you know it is a car. Your mind puts a label on the sound. You may have the image of a car. 

Instead of identifying and defining each sound, try to focus on the experience of hearing.

Imagine your ears are microphones. A microphone does not label the sound but picks it up.

Keep noticing one sound until another sound demands your attention. Then, place your full attention on this sound.

 Be curious as you listen.  Try not to label the sound. Just hear it for what it is, a vibration that your mind perceives as sound.

Bring your awareness back to the breath.  Let your breath flow with ease. You don’t need to force your breath. Let your attention rest on the sound of the breath.  Notice the sound of the inhale and the sound of the exhale.

Take a few breaths focusing on the sound of breathing.

When you are ready to let the meditation go, open your eyes.  

 

Sound Meditation Guided Audio

I recorded a guided audio for you to practice the meditation on sound. The audio is about 8 minutes.

Sound Meditation Practice tips

Wear headphones if possible.

If at any time during the meditation, you become physically uncomfortable, create some movement.  You can shift around in your seat or even get up and walk around.  

Don’t force your breath.  Let it flow normally, but observe the sound of the breath.  If noticing your breath creates discomfort move on to another sound, noticing a sound that is near you.

If your mind is restless, you are not doing anything wrong.  Meditation is the process of training your brain to focus fully in the moment.  If you notice your mind has wandered off, return your attention to the sound you were observing, with no judgment.  You may need to do this several times during the meditation.

Enjoy!

Guided Audio – Ocean Mind

Guided Audio – Ocean Mind

A practice to go beneath thought

Thoughts often get in the way of your meditation practice, but trying to force them away won’t work.  Your brain is a busy place, flooded with thoughts, sensations, memories, and worries about the future.  It takes time to train the brain to allow all of this activity to fall away without getting caught up in the sensations and stories your brain likes to engage with.  

It may take time, but you can train your brain to watch your thoughts, your stories, and even your emotions from the place of the observer. 

The observer is a neutral spectator.  The observer is not emotionally attached to these thoughts, emotions, or stories.  To the observer watching these mental phenomena is no different than watching the waves roll onto a beach, and then roll back to sea.

 

You too can become the observer.  In this guided audio meditation I offer you the visualization of diving into the water, going deep beneath the mental activity that stays at the surface of the water.

Imagine diving beneath the waves at the surface of the water.  It may be choppy, or even stormy at the surface, but once you are beneath the waves, it is calm.  It is peaceful.  You can observe the movement of the water at the surface from beneath, in your quiet space.

The Practice

The goal of this practice is to use the breath to focus your thoughts, allowing you to slip into the quiet space beneath thought.  In this space, you are the observer of your thoughts.  

Start by sitting comfortably or lying on your back.  Take a moment to settle in and notice all the places your body meets the chair or floor.  

Bring your attention to your breath.  Choose one place to notice, where ever it feels most comfortable to notice. It may be on your mouth or nostrils noticing the gentle feeling of air moving in or out. Maybe you feel the breath in your chest, feeling the rise and fall of your chest as your breath.  Or maybe you notice your breath in your belly, noticing your belly rising and falling. Keep your attention on the breath, notice the sensation of each inhale and each exhale.  Let your awareness ride on the wave of breath.

Now, imagine you are looking at a lake or ocean.  You see ripples across the surface; these ripples may be tiny or big waves.  Imagine just watching each wave as it moves across the surface of the water.  Any thoughts that come up see if you can imagine them becoming waves.  As you watch the water, the wave appears, it moves across the water, eventually hits the shore, or is overtaken by another wave.  Let your thoughts be waves, they will still be there, but you can watch them from a distance, just as if you are watching the water from the shore.

You may choose to stay on the shore and watch the waves, or you may choose to dive into the water and go below the surface.

Imagine your mind is like the ocean, where it’s calm and clear beneath the surface.

From this deep place in the ocean, you can look up toward the surface, and no matter what the conditions are, whether it’s calm, choppy, or even stormy. Deep in the ocean, it’s calm and clear.  Imagine your thoughts, sensations, and perceptions, all on the surface of the water.  You watch from beneath the waves.

You are not the actions of your mind, you are the observer.

Anytime you notice you are no longer focused on your breath, gently turn your attention back to your breath.  The inhale flows in, the exhale flows out.  You ride the waves.

Take a few more breaths, inhale, exhale, and let yourself go deeper into this peaceful space.

Anytime you wish to return to this place, drop your gaze or close your eyes, turn your attention to your breath, and you will be back in this place of calm, beneath the actions of your mind.  

Take an inhale in, and then let it go with the exhale.  When you are ready, let your eyes open.

Ocean Mind Guided Audio

I have recorded a guided audio for you to practice the ocean mind meditation. The audio is about 9 minutes.

Ocean Mind Practice tips

For the best audio, and to increase the chances of not being disturbed, wear headphones if possible.

You may choose to create movement at any time in the practice.  If you become physically uncomfortable, switch positions, or create movements like rolling your shoulders, or letting your head or spine move.  Remember, there are no shoulds in this practice.  If you feel like you need to get up and walk away, you can do that.

Don’t force the breath.  Let the breath flow naturally, just observe your breath.  If you are not comfortable with the visualization of diving under the water, stay on the shore.  Imagine your thoughts are the waves that lap onto the shore and then flow back to sea.  You can sit safely back away from the water, watching.

If you notice you have lost yourself in thoughts, don’t worry.  We all have minds that think, a lot.  Gently guide your awareness back toward the sensations or sound of your breath.  Imagine the breath becoming a tide, the inhale gently moving inward, the exhale, the outgoing tide, gently rolling back to the water. 

Enjoy!

Guided Audio – Awareness Body Scan

Guided Audio – Awareness Body Scan

Awareness Practice

Your mind is either present to the moment through your senses or lost in thought. It can’t be in both places. There is no past or future when viewing sensations, only the now. Conversely, the internal monologue of thought will block sensations. When you are not aware of sensation, the moment is lost.

Your conscious mind can only process 5 to 9 bits of information. Information your conscious mind processes includes sensory input from your five senses, like sound, sight, touch, taste, and smell. For example, have you ever turned down the radio in your car to see better?  

One of the benefits of your human brain is it can think about the past and imagine the future. Still, this function can also keep you from experiencing the now.  

The default functioning of your brain is “anywhere but here and now.” Unless you focus on an object like a task, your brain scans, thinks, worries, rehashes the past and imagines the future. You rerun old conversations and worry about what might happen in the future.  

Thoughts become your identity. Descartes wrote, “I think therefore I am” Thoughts can be a significant part of your being.

Buddha wrote, “Watch your thoughts. They become your words; watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”  

Thoughts can run an endless loop of chatter, shutting out the present moment. If you are in the past or the future, you are not in the now.

Think about how often you are truly aware of the now in your daily life. How often have you driven to work or run your daily errands and your subconscious found the way? You were lost in thought and didn’t remember the trip? You walk outside, yet your mind is not aware of the nature around you. Or worse yet, you are on your iPhone. How many ways do we distract, numb, and avoid sensing or feeling through TV and social media?  

There is nothing wrong with distractions, but constantly living anywhere but in the here and now creates a brain that will have difficulty focusing.

Meditation is a way to move from “anywhere but here and now” to the now. But keep in mind that if you have not been practicing taking your mind to the now, it will be more difficult, but not impossible, to start to train your brain to focus. It takes training and repeated effort, maybe a few minutes, to begin to open to the present, allowing your conscious mind’s 5-9 objects to include sensation at the moment.  

The Practice

The following practice is from Aligned, Relaxed, Resilient: The Physical Foundations of Mindfulness, written by Will Johnson, to help you move your mind to the now by focusing on sensation.  

The goal of this practice is acceptance, to be present to whatever you notice.  

Lie down on your back, or sit comfortably.

Start by placing your attention at the top of your head. Let yourself be aware of any sensation you feel there. They may be subtle sensations. For example, if your head is on a pillow, you may sense your head resting on this surface. Sensations may be slight, tingling, or dull. It does not matter whether they are pleasant or unpleasant. Notice them anyway.

You may wish to start to move your attention to other parts of your body, bit by bit.

Next, notice your whole Scalp area. What do you notice there?

Gradually shift to the face, forehead, eyes, temples, nose, cheeks, lips, mouth.

Notice the ears and tongue.

Be patient and allow the sensations to rise to your awareness.

Next, bring your awareness to the neck, the back of the neck, and both sides of the neck. Finally, notice the front of the throat.

What do you feel there?

Turn your attention to your right shoulder. Then, slowly down the length of your arm to your hand.

Notice each finger. Pause long enough to notice the sensation in each of these places. Notice if one finger has a different feeling than the others.

Repeat on the left side, starting with your shoulder, arm, hand, and fingers.

Next, turn your attention to your torso, the sides of your torso, your chest your belly.

What do you notice there? Maybe one sensation blends with another.  

Next, bring your awareness to your back. First, the top of your back, the spine, the shoulder blades, ribs, and the lower back.

Next, bring your awareness to your sacrum and pelvis. Do you notice any sensation there?

Continue scanning, moving to your legs. First, bring your attention to the right leg. Next, notice the right upper leg, the right knee, the right lower leg, the ankle, the foot, and the right toes.

Repeat with the left leg, the left upper leg, the left knee, the left lower leg, the ankle, the foot, and the toes.

Now, turn your attention to your whole body.  Notice the variety of sensations present. Maybe there are places where there is no sensation.

Body Scan for Awareness Guided Audio

I have recorded a guided audio for you to practice body scan meditation. The audio is about 7 1/2 minutes.

Body Scan Practice tips

Don’t force anything. If you become physically, mentally, or emotionally uncomfortable during the practice, stop the practice. You can get up, walk around, journal, or move to a breath meditation practice.  

You may not sense anything in some places. That is ok, notice there is no sensation and keep scanning. Try not to block the dull, not-so-pleasant sensations. If there is pain, move.  

As you watch, you may first notice sensations on the exterior of your body. You may notice where your body meets surfaces like the floor or a chair. You may notice clothing or air on your skin. As you continue to notice, subtler sensations may become apparent. There may be a vibration or shimmer from within your body. There may be other internal sensations. If you notice you got lost in thought, gently let your attention move back to sensation.

Enjoy!