Guided Audio – Eye of the Storm Meditation

Guided Audio – Eye of the Storm Meditation

Eye of the Storm Guided Meditation

Life doesn’t slow. You have deadlines, emails, and messages. The stress creeps in before you notice. But in the middle of all this chaos, there is always a still point—a space of quiet within you that is beyond stress and confusion.

This quiet space is the eye of the storm—a place where we can pause, breathe, and reconnect with ourselves, no matter what is happening around us.

Take three minutes to find calm with this short meditation, where I guide you into that still center, the place of clarity and calm. You don’t need silence. You don’t need perfect conditions. You only need to pause and breathe.

I recorded a guided audio for you to practice the Eye of the Storm Meditatiom. The audio is about 3 minutes.

Eye of the Storm Meditation Practice tips

Wear headphones if possible.

If at any time during the meditation, you become physically uncomfortable, create some movement.  You can shift around in your seat or even get up and walk around.  

Don’t force your breath.  Let it flow normally,

If your mind is restless, you are not doing anything wrong.  

Relax and breathe.

Enjoy!

Guided Audio – Sound Meditation

Guided Audio – Sound Meditation

A Guided Meditation using Sounds

Sound can be a distraction during meditation.  Noises can pull you from the state of calm that may come with meditation.  But the goal of meditation may not be to distance yourself from what is around you but to create awareness of your external and internal environment.

It is almost impossible to avoid sounds as you meditate. Sounds come and constantly.  But sounds don’t need to be a distraction.  You can use sound in your practice.  You can use any sound.  You may notice sounds around you, in your room, or you may notice sounds outside of your environment, like cars passing or birds singing.  You may notice internal sounds like the sound of your breath.  There might be subtle a sound like the hum of a computer.

The sounds you hear become an anchor, an object of the senses that helps keep your mind present to the moment.  Your mind tends to think about the past or the future, it is not usually in the present moment, the now.  

During this meditation, you will start by listening to the sound of your breath.  Then you may choose to explore listening to any other sounds that become aware of, noticing the qualities of each sound.  Every sound has certain qualities, like how loud the sound is, and the pitch of the sound.  Sounds may come and go, they may be very close to you, or far away.  To meditate on a sound is more than being aware of the sound, it is noticing these qualities.

In this meditation, I will lead you through the experience of becoming aware of the sounds around you.

The practice

Get comfortable, either sitting or lying down. If seated, ensure your feet touch the floor or a book. You may have your knees bent over a pillow if you lie down.

Take a moment to settle in, and adjust your position if you need to get comfortable.

Close your eyes, or let your gaze soften by looking just in front of you. 

Bring your awareness to the breath, but instead of focusing on the physical feeling of the breath, listen to the sound of the body breathing.

Open up your awareness to other sounds present. Let your awareness focus on one sound. Tune into this sound, and listen to the sound and the qualities of this sound.

Notice how the mind recognizes the sound. When a car goes by, you know it is a car. Your mind puts a label on the sound. You may have the image of a car. 

Instead of identifying and defining each sound, try to focus on the experience of hearing.

Imagine your ears are microphones. A microphone does not label the sound but picks it up.

Keep noticing one sound until another sound demands your attention. Then, place your full attention on this sound.

 Be curious as you listen.  Try not to label the sound. Just hear it for what it is, a vibration that your mind perceives as sound.

Bring your awareness back to the breath.  Let your breath flow with ease. You don’t need to force your breath. Let your attention rest on the sound of the breath.  Notice the sound of the inhale and the sound of the exhale.

Take a few breaths focusing on the sound of breathing.

When you are ready to let the meditation go, open your eyes.  

 

Sound Meditation Guided Audio

I recorded a guided audio for you to practice the meditation on sound. The audio is about 8 minutes.

Sound Meditation Practice tips

Wear headphones if possible.

If at any time during the meditation, you become physically uncomfortable, create some movement.  You can shift around in your seat or even get up and walk around.  

Don’t force your breath.  Let it flow normally, but observe the sound of the breath.  If noticing your breath creates discomfort move on to another sound, noticing a sound that is near you.

If your mind is restless, you are not doing anything wrong.  Meditation is the process of training your brain to focus fully in the moment.  If you notice your mind has wandered off, return your attention to the sound you were observing, with no judgment.  You may need to do this several times during the meditation.

Enjoy!

Guided Audio – Ocean Mind

Guided Audio – Ocean Mind

A practice to go beneath thought

Thoughts often get in the way of your meditation practice, but trying to force them away won’t work.  Your brain is a busy place, flooded with thoughts, sensations, memories, and worries about the future.  It takes time to train the brain to allow all of this activity to fall away without getting caught up in the sensations and stories your brain likes to engage with.  

It may take time, but you can train your brain to watch your thoughts, your stories, and even your emotions from the place of the observer. 

The observer is a neutral spectator.  The observer is not emotionally attached to these thoughts, emotions, or stories.  To the observer watching these mental phenomena is no different than watching the waves roll onto a beach, and then roll back to sea.

 

You too can become the observer.  In this guided audio meditation I offer you the visualization of diving into the water, going deep beneath the mental activity that stays at the surface of the water.

Imagine diving beneath the waves at the surface of the water.  It may be choppy, or even stormy at the surface, but once you are beneath the waves, it is calm.  It is peaceful.  You can observe the movement of the water at the surface from beneath, in your quiet space.

The Practice

The goal of this practice is to use the breath to focus your thoughts, allowing you to slip into the quiet space beneath thought.  In this space, you are the observer of your thoughts.  

Start by sitting comfortably or lying on your back.  Take a moment to settle in and notice all the places your body meets the chair or floor.  

Bring your attention to your breath.  Choose one place to notice, where ever it feels most comfortable to notice. It may be on your mouth or nostrils noticing the gentle feeling of air moving in or out. Maybe you feel the breath in your chest, feeling the rise and fall of your chest as your breath.  Or maybe you notice your breath in your belly, noticing your belly rising and falling. Keep your attention on the breath, notice the sensation of each inhale and each exhale.  Let your awareness ride on the wave of breath.

Now, imagine you are looking at a lake or ocean.  You see ripples across the surface; these ripples may be tiny or big waves.  Imagine just watching each wave as it moves across the surface of the water.  Any thoughts that come up see if you can imagine them becoming waves.  As you watch the water, the wave appears, it moves across the water, eventually hits the shore, or is overtaken by another wave.  Let your thoughts be waves, they will still be there, but you can watch them from a distance, just as if you are watching the water from the shore.

You may choose to stay on the shore and watch the waves, or you may choose to dive into the water and go below the surface.

Imagine your mind is like the ocean, where it’s calm and clear beneath the surface.

From this deep place in the ocean, you can look up toward the surface, and no matter what the conditions are, whether it’s calm, choppy, or even stormy. Deep in the ocean, it’s calm and clear.  Imagine your thoughts, sensations, and perceptions, all on the surface of the water.  You watch from beneath the waves.

You are not the actions of your mind, you are the observer.

Anytime you notice you are no longer focused on your breath, gently turn your attention back to your breath.  The inhale flows in, the exhale flows out.  You ride the waves.

Take a few more breaths, inhale, exhale, and let yourself go deeper into this peaceful space.

Anytime you wish to return to this place, drop your gaze or close your eyes, turn your attention to your breath, and you will be back in this place of calm, beneath the actions of your mind.  

Take an inhale in, and then let it go with the exhale.  When you are ready, let your eyes open.

Ocean Mind Guided Audio

I have recorded a guided audio for you to practice the ocean mind meditation. The audio is about 9 minutes.

Ocean Mind Practice tips

For the best audio, and to increase the chances of not being disturbed, wear headphones if possible.

You may choose to create movement at any time in the practice.  If you become physically uncomfortable, switch positions, or create movements like rolling your shoulders, or letting your head or spine move.  Remember, there are no shoulds in this practice.  If you feel like you need to get up and walk away, you can do that.

Don’t force the breath.  Let the breath flow naturally, just observe your breath.  If you are not comfortable with the visualization of diving under the water, stay on the shore.  Imagine your thoughts are the waves that lap onto the shore and then flow back to sea.  You can sit safely back away from the water, watching.

If you notice you have lost yourself in thoughts, don’t worry.  We all have minds that think, a lot.  Gently guide your awareness back toward the sensations or sound of your breath.  Imagine the breath becoming a tide, the inhale gently moving inward, the exhale, the outgoing tide, gently rolling back to the water. 

Enjoy!

Working with Thoughts

Working with Thoughts

Working with thoughts

One of the most difficult things to deal with while meditating is thoughts.    You think about 60,000 thoughts a day, and you can’t just turn them off when you want to. Most of these thoughts are not productive.  They are generally self-doubt, worry, or the rehashing of past events or conversations, writing an entire story in your mind.  Each of us will have our own top ten that often show up as soon as we sit and try to quiet our minds.

How do you deal with the thoughts during meditation?

First, remember you can not stop your thoughts, and this is not the goal of meditation.  Meditation is recognizing that the thought is there and then letting it go.  The goal is learning to notice when you have gone off with a thought and turn your attention back to a sense object, or anchor, like the sound or sensation of your breath.

The unproductive top ten may be more difficult to unstick.  Recognize that all thoughts are transient energy moving through your mind.  All thoughts, even the difficult ones, will be created, will move through your mind, and eventually, even they will move through.   As soon as you notice your mind is playing one of these thoughts, acknowledge it, you can even give it a name, like Wanda Worry.  Don’t try to immediately push it out, say hello, maybe notice any sensations in the body associated with the thought, like tightness in the chest, or muscular tension.  Be curious, allow the thought and sensations to move through and move on.   

Another way to work with thoughts is to put distance between you and your thought.  You might imagine thoughts as clouds, or soap bubbles that float through your mind.  You can watch and observe them without engaging with them.

If any thought is too difficult to handle, you can always walk away from the meditation, you don’t need to force yourself to work with painful thoughts or emotions.

 

Learn to work with thoughts in this guided meditation

Learn how to work with thoughts during meditation, especially the unproductive thoughts that play like a bad top ten tune list when you try to quiet your mind.  I’ll lead a guided meditation exploring ways to work with most thoughts.

 

Guided Audio Practice tips

 Get really comfortable.  You may sit in a comfortable chair or lie on your back.  As you settle in, take a moment to scan your body.  If you feel any tension or discomfort, move or position yourself some other way.  Close your eyes and start the meditation.

During the meditation, I will lead you through a couple of ways to work with thought, first noticing any physical sensations or emotions that may accompany the thought.  I will also lead you through imagining each thought as a soap bubble so you can put some distance between a thought and yourself, view it in a neutral way.

If any thought becomes difficult to sit with, or brings difficult emotions, let it go.  You can always bring your attention away from the thought and back to your breath or physical movement.  You can always stop the meditatation and walk away.  There are not shoulds in this practice.

The guided meditation is about ten minutes long.   Enjoy!

Dancing Through Change

Dancing Through Change

The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.”

Alan W. Watts

The new year is a time when I find myself looking back at what was, trying to imagine the path ahead.  But one thing I know, everything changes.  Each year, each day, each moment, brings something different.   Nothing stays the same forever, and I can’t cling or hold onto what was. 

Everything changes

Nature is an example of constant change. Night becomes day, and the seasons change. In the Northeast United States, we experience the variety of each season. The heat of summer, and the smell of freshly mowed grass, the crispness of fall and fall foliage, winter snow, and the blossoming in the spring. We all get older. Your body changes as new cells replace old ones. As a result, you may look different than you did 5 or 10 years ago.  

The practice of meditation can be a practice of noticing change. For example, as you watch your breath, you see your inhale become an exhale, you notice the ebb and flow, the shifts and changes with each breath. Thoughts come and go, sensations in your body come and go.

No matter how much you wish things to stay the same, they won’t. They can’t.  

Nothing is controllable

Because change is uncomfortable, you may try to control your environment. You may try to control other people or the situations around you. No matter how hard you fight to keep change from happening, in reality, you can’t control much.

The Buddha realized that dissatisfaction in your life is caused by clinging to comfort, clinging to the known. This clinging causes anxiousness as you try to hang on to your experiences. This clinging and aversion to the unknown can keep you stuck.

Imagine driving in the same rut over and over. The more you drive in the rut, the deeper the grooves. You may no longer need to worry about steering, but going up and over the deep ruts may be difficult or even impossible. It will be hard to change direction.  

Navigating change

Change will happen. Some changes may not be easy to accept. But as the Buddha taught, clinging to something that has changed creates its anxiety or dissatisfaction.

Be aware that some traumatic changes may require professional assistance, like grief counseling. However, there are tools to navigate change like new opportunities, moving, or finding where they moved your favorite can of soup in the grocery store.

 

There are many practices to help you navigate change by learning there is a part of you that does not change. Each of us has an internal witness that watches and observes change without being affected.

Meditation

During the practice of meditation, you may watch your breath. You feel the sensation of each inhale and exhale, and you may hear the sound of your breath. Your chest expands and relaxes, rises, and falls as you breathe. Your inhale becomes an exhale. The witness does not change. It just observes. I like to compare this idea of the witness to be in the eye of a hurricane. The hurricane still swirls around the eye, but inside is still. You can witness the storm without getting caught up in the winds.

Through practices like meditation and yoga, your inner compass and your intuition get louder. As you find the quiet space in the center of the storm, you can hear the voice of your intuition, your inner knowing. Your inner wisdom understands the changing nature of things. Your inner compass can help you navigate change by understanding what is truly important to you.

Yoga

Yoga adds physical movement to the practice to observe the sensation of movement from the witness’s view. The body moves, and you feel the sense of movement, but the “you” that is the witness observes without change. Yoga practices can teach you first physically to ground your mat and balance. These practices help keep you connected to the moment. These practices keep you from losing yourself as things change. Trees need to be deeply rooted yet able to sway in the wind to survive a storm.

 

Compassion

Patience and Compassion are tools to help you navigate change. Have patience with yourself and others. We are all navigating change. Change can cause fear and anxiety. If you notice this in yourself or others, don’t judge, be compassionate. Bring love and understanding to the fear or frustration. You may choose to use the phrases of Metta or loving-kindness during a meditation. “May They/I be healthy,” May They/I be safe,” May I/They at ease,” May They/I be happy.” Create a sense of love and joy as you repeat the phrases.

Why change is good

As much as we all dislike change, imagine if nothing ever changed. Everything would be stagnant. You would be driving in a big, deep rut.  

You wouldn’t be able to see over the grooves of the rut. There would be no way out.  

Change can be welcome, like the fresh air that comes into the house when you first open the windows after a long winter. Change can be subtle or ripping something apart from the foundations and rebuilding bigger, better, and stronger.

Change may mean growth. Nature goes through cycles of growth and expansion. Change can expand your perspective. You may learn new things or view things differently.  

 Change may be what you need to force you out of the comfort of your rut.

Change is a dance

Navigating change is a dance. It is staying grounded but swaying with the beat. It is learning to let go into the music and enjoy the flow.

Yoga and meditation have taught me to try and stay in the moment, be with what is, to be resilient enough to dance with the ebb and flow of change. It’s not easy, and I don’t always succeed. Sometimes it’s hard to step out of my comfortable rut. But I try to treasure the memories. I look for the lessons, the keepsakes that I can carry forward as I step out in faith.  

Wherever your path takes you, I hope you keep dancing.  

Meditation – Releasing stuck thoughts

Change can be difficult, especially if there are thoughts stuck in your mind.  We all have the top 10 non-productive thoughts that may keep us stuck in a rut.  There are the worry thoughts, the not good enough thoughts, or just the stories we rehash about past events.

Thoughts can be difficult when you sit and meditate, yet meditating is one of the best tools to learn to work skillfully with thoughts.

I’ll lead you through a couple of different ways to work with thoughts both during meditation and eventually at any time.